Make this a special mother’s day !

BY SEAN DELANEY

Just a few thoughts and ideas to make this May 8th a special one in Emery

Whether buying a gift for your own mother, grandmother or the mother of your child, take some time before the big day to really find out what she wants and desires.

Guys, this does require paying attention to her when she is talking, especially when she is complaining. That’s right. Women won’t necessarily articulate what’s bugging them “in so many words,” but they will grumble and complain. It could be in muttered frustration, or quite loudly, but whichever way it comes out, take it to heart and try to give her the solution to it on Mother’s Day. It could be as simple as a few hours to herself, a day at the spa, or even just a meal she doesn’t have to prepare.

Mother’s Day is the perfect time to take the opportunity to mend fences. If you have had a falling out with your mom, it’s time to let by-gones be by-gones and repair the relationship. What better surprise could there be then going to someone with forgiveness in your heart and love in your voice? Mothers never want to be at odds with their children, so do what it takes to resolve the tension. No one knows how long they have left on this Earth. So mend those broken feelings and relationships before it’s too late.

Along this same line of thinking be the mediator in fixing other relationship problems. For example, if your mom has a relative in a far off place, give her a long distance calling card, set up a Skype chat or even give her a plane or bus ticket to get her there for a visit. This type of gift will create memories that will far outlast a bouquet of flowers or candy.

Most moms are extremely busy, so if you really want to surprise her this Mother’s Day, give her a day that is all about her. Start off by serving mom her favorite breakfast in bed. While she’s enjoying the luxurious morning, clean up the mess you made in the kitchen, then get ready for the rest of the surprise. What could this be? Who knows! It’s totally up to mom. Ask her how she would like to spend the rest of the day, then do your best to provide her with that wish.

We all get caught up in our own lives, so if you haven’t spent any quality time with your mother, make a point of doing so this Mother’s Day. Show up in the morning with mom’s favorite treats or an invite to breakfast or brunch – then sit down and enjoy each other’s company. Laugh, giggle, reminisce and build new memories. A mom doesn’t care how or where she sees her child, she just wants to know she is still loved, honoured and thought about - that’s what matters!